As a disclaimer: I have a loving wife, we have the amount of kids we wanted to have, together, and they are wonderful in their own right. So family planning is closed. But me being here tells you something. So I told my wife about cuckolding,chastity, tease and denial, BBC, everything on a drunken night 4 years ago. In retrospect I flooded her with 4 years of research into my kinks in about an hour. So things did no go well. I Have a BWC, so she did not get it at all.She acted like it did not happen. But since last year things changed. She got more bossy. She limited me fucking her in the last year. And when I fuck her, I can't cum, I have to pull out for the last year. For about 6 months she said she doesn't want me to cum at all. If I'm close, just pull out and finish the rest like a men, with your face deep inside my pussy. So my last full orgasm in here was a year ago, me cumming at all during sex was about 6 months ago. I suspect it clicked with her. We have sex regularly, at least two times a week. But now my penis is just out of it. Its the Hitachi wand and my mouth. Advice on how I progress to get to the real thing? A friend of her only fucks BBC, but we drifted apart a bit and she quit clubbing. So the avenue I planned to use closed.