Take a complete break from porn if things are that bad. Other things will start to become more attractive. Otherwise you need to focus on finding a partner with a tickling fetish.

You know, I used to feel this way, but the truth is, it's not that big of a deal. Once I got past the fact that my fetish isn't that odd, and lots of other people have way weirder ones, I was able to just casually bring it up with a lady after getting to know them. I didn't just bring it up out of no where, but if a lady seems flirty with you, let her know you're into sensitivity play or soft touch and start with some foot rubs with a tickle now and then. If she seems to like it, let her know that's what you like, and she'll either accept it, think it's weird or not care one way or the other. Most of the time, women like having their feet played with, so you're usually going to get a positive response. Once sex comes up, explain that this is what gets you going and try combining it. I'm sort of like you where i don't really care about penetration, but if I have her legs up with her feet right up close so i can suck her toes and tickle her feet, i will cum HARD.

I understand you, traditional sex doesn't turn me on either, I'm only turned on by tickling and nothing else. Do you want advice? accept it, the more you fight against that fetish, the more damage it will do, I am already aware that my sexual performance is fucked up, I don't care, I accept that I like tickling and I will continue to like it, what's more, the more you love that fetish, the less you that problem will matter.

>>44805 >what the fuck would I even do in bed? just tickle her feet while jacking off like I’m watching porn IRL? fuck Unironically safer and sometimes more fun than sex Seriously though, if you take a break from porn you’ll start feeling normal again. I mean a long break. Months. Getting off to feet tickling and getting off to vanilla sex are two sides of the same coin. Only your, (and my) fetish porn addiction makes that coin very difficult to flip. Once you lay off the porn you can enjoy vanilla sex with your feet tickle fetish still there but at a healthy level. You can tickle her feet as foreplay before fucking her. You can flip that coin no problem. I’ve been on a porn binge as of late but I have quit for months before and had my life return to normal. The amount of free fetish porn is insane, the amount of paid vids and pics even crazier. We are living in the age of porn. It is up to you to unplug from that if you want to live a “normal” life. Save jacking off to loads of porn for special occasions or challenge yourself to not do it as long as possible.

It's likely that nature just kicks in and you will be able to put your penis in a vagina in actual situation. Personally I got zero interest in porn/erotica with regular sex and exclusively jerk off to tickling and/or bondage, but when it comes to actually having sex neither feel mandatory.

In my experience with some flings Ive had here and there, tickling is best when its foreplay and not the entire act that youre doing with the other person. If youre a lee, you can tell your partner that it turns you on to get rekt and after a good roughing up you'll be horny enough to do more conventional sexual acts. If youre a ler I imagine it would be harder to get your rocks off though. Perhaps if your partner is a bit on the more submissive side you could incorporate it into power play and use it as a method to dom. You always gotta remember that youre playing with a person, and respect stuff like safewords and boundaries. The wild stuff you see in tickle art and stories and stuff like that are just fantasies, so dont expect them If you dont really find sex desirable at all, I suggest taking a break from fetish content and delving more into more "traditional" porn, whether or not it be erotica, art, r34, porn videos, etc. Theres plenty to enjoy, you just gotta be willing to explore a bit. I used to be on the same boat until I had a friend that asked to worship my feet. I decided ah fuck it sure why not, ended up liking it, and over the multiple sessions we had we started incorporating tickling into it and sex stuff that he eased me into.

>>44805 Chill out dude. Foot/tickle fetish is actually relatively common. At least you’re not into poop lol. You need to take some time off of porn. If you need to coom, use your imagination. You gotta be able to pleasure a woman. If you can accomplish that, she will do the same for you.

>>44805 > the idea of penetration or anything resembling what is commonly known as "sex" makes me flaccid It's because you've never been touched and have no reason to identify those things as "pleasurable" yet. And that's not a knock on you, it's something you need to realize in order to get past it. Try dating "like normal", with no expectation of sex. Get comfortable with women. Unless you pick a total femcel, one will likely be willing to take the minimal amount of initiative in order to try and try and give you the "Let's fuck" signals, a lot of which will be physical touch. The actual touch is what is arousing, and then subsequent depictions of sex is what turns you on. Unless you're an absolute fucking retard and literally can't function around the opposite in ANY capacity, you'll be fine.

OP is a kinky asexual, one of millions who have this fetish.

>>45052 I doubt millions have this fetish, at least to the extent that we do. Millions of people get turned on by light tickling as foreplay. But I doubt even 1 million jerk off exclusively to girls with their toes tied back and their arms locked over their head

>>45083 I know tickling isn't the most popular fetish out there, but to say that less than a million people in the world have it would mean that only 0.00125% of people in the world have it. (and since people generally care about looks and stuff, it's even less if you only count one couple who are cute and the gender you're interested in) Accepting that would be depressing, so, I'll try to ignore that thought :(

>>45088 millions of people do have the fetish is what I’m saying, just not to the degree that I and many others on this board have it. We are tainted by porn. What started off as being interested in light ticking has turned into getting off to torturous bondage and scream laughter. That’s me personally but I’m sure many on this board can relate.

Anon why do you care what other people think of you? Besides the obvious like showering and stuff Remember how normies loved cringe shit like Twilight

Can ECS turn ticklefags normal please I hate this horrible fetish and what it's done to my life

>>45428 >he thinks watching a movie and reading books is on the same level of his childish cringe weirdo fetish Ask me how I know you've never had sex.

>>45960 Because he's a ticklefag?