>>40080 Way to get the thread rolling... Well, the Boomers and Gen-X seemed to be into cloth and crinkly plastic pants and the whole, "if you act like a baby I'll treat you like a baby" schtick. Also, mostly fags and incels in these generations, my hypothesis is because cloth diapers didn't stimulate female gentitalia enough to make them abdl. Post-disposable diaper childhoods (Millenials) we see the first boom of female ABDLs, but they're immediately they're put off by all the thirsty Gen-Xers and Boomers. Millennials' still very ashamed of our love of diapers, but not as into the harsh humiliation but more of us are into gentle dom since half of our parents had figured out gentle parenting and we're like "don't pee you pants, you're not a baby," versus "Goddammit! You fucking baby, piss your pants again and I'll put you back in diapers!" Seems Zoomers are generally more chill about their fetish, only kinda embarrassed about it. Younger zoomers talk about this shit on Youtube like it's a hobby, DnD or BMXing or some shit. Oldest Alpha is only ten right now, so who knows about them.

Okay?

>>40081 Damn, I'm into soft humiliation and I really didn't think about it that way. Christ, you really have a point.

>>40081 Kill all zoomers

>>40081 >only kinda embarrassed about it lol lmao I wish I was born a woman or gay. Every time I think I get romantically close with someone, I think about them finding out about this secret and it being a deal breaker. Every now and then, I try some sort of BDSM dating app because someone there would surely understand, but everyone is either way older than I am, looking for a one night stand, a lesbian, looking for a daddy, or an onlyfans whore. Men can't be vulnerable. Men have to be the bread-winners, and a boulder of emotional support, and this and that and whatever. I've finally gotten to a place in my life where I have accepted that this is a huge part of who I am, but I fear the world is not as ready. I'm not some autist who will wear only a diaper in public and shit in it. I just want to be held and comforted and told that I am a good baby boy in private. Right now, I give myself the words I want to hear, or even brush my fingers through my hair to get into headspace. Once I finally come out of it, I cry because I might be the only one able to give myself such a calming experience. Every time I drink, I think about being so wasted that I have to be taken care of and someone will cuddle with me and treat me like I've finally wanted. I can't even have that since my tolerance is insanely good, and I'm the most aware out of all of my friends so I have to take care of them when we drink. Maybe I'm asking for too much, but it's hard for me to not be embarrassed by it. Even if (when) I'm fully OK with this side of me, I still have to keep it away from those I care about the most. I don't know if I will ever find a girl who is supportive of stuff like this, and I'm certainly not opening up to my friends about it (at least, not now). Thank you for reading my shitty ass blog.

>>40085 LOL, bro chill. It's okay. You're young. Having married the rare ABDL female, I gotta say it's not all you imagine it to be, but it is amazing - or, rather she is. But it's true you gotta have something to offer. I had a good education, a career, and treated her right. I get to be the baby 1/3 times, and that's good enough for me. but you're totally right that if my life had only been about diapers it wouldn't have worked. A bro I know married a non-ABDL and told here - she didn't reject him, but she doesn't really have N interest or participate either. So you gotta decide how much acceptance you need. You a zoomer though? Is there any traditional masculinity left in you guys? What's the ABDL scene like for your generation?

>>40097 >You a zoomer though? Yes. >Is there any traditional masculinity left in you guys? Of course there is. There will always be "traditional masculinity." >What's the ABDL scene like for your generation? I wish I knew. I probably would feel less embarrassed if I knew someone. Most people my age are probably scared of hosting a munch, and I think that seeing people 2/3x our age is not appealing, too. I've only ever met an ABDL online and she's a year older than me. We've been friends for a good while, but it's not the same as a real friend would be.

>>40101 I'm a late millenial/early zoomer 94. I don't remember much of the 90s but I do remember 9/11 so I'm not sure where that leaves me generationally. You are absolutely right. Most guys are too fucked up with "traditionally masculine" concepts that they don't even know are fucking them up. It's taken years of reflection and effort for me to learn to question the inherent value that masculinity applies to things. To some extent I totally get feeling like it would be easier to be gay or a woman. I am really not interested in being either but it definitely seems like getting ABDL needs met as one or the other would be easier. My wife is simply not interested in diapers and stuff like that. I used to really restrict my home wearing at her request but through some awful mental health crises over the last year I put my foot down on that. I wear diapers now, when I want, no questions asked. There is literally no reason for me to not do the thing that comforts me when I want it. She has accepted that, but there is an aspect of my emotional needs in regards to that that will never be met. It sucks.

>>40101 Surviving the 2016 sjw dramas and gamergate stuff hearing masculine as a guy just feels... annoying now Like when queer says cis I understand is a word that's existed for years but is been ruined and poisoned with out of context Even fem just feels...cringe Slowly i struggle to understand todays rule's So women don't wanna dress girly..ok fine yet when a trans person becomes female they....dress girly which is going against what women wanted (vise versa on males) Trans people wanna be seen as normal...ok sure yet trans people i met (don't apply to all trans and don't used this post as your anti trans argument) they want to not be seen as normal but "special" cause from what i see it...you just changed your look and your title...which anyone can do on a whim As a autistic person who only knows autism,adhd etc yeet sudden I'm not apparently autistic im "nuro divergent" which....sorry but autism is already a kinda umbrella now we have umbrella for umbrella terms so i Gonna be confused if your autistic,adhd,asburges and more I'm also struggling with the rules of life now we have too many messes and rules Too many flags,too many terms for every tiny thing and rewording old words and act like "well you should of known this" YET I'M NOT ON TUMBLR 24 FUCKING 7 And is same issue with abdl now as before we have two groups You either love wearing diapers or you love being a baby but now your a babyfur (that's still adult baby) and now we have to separate cloth, plastic and cotten diaper lovers the must saying diaper lover I'm only 1 gen behind yet I'm more confused then skibidi toilet (least that is simple as is toliets vs robots in epic fight simple as) What happened to just being basic Hell the big question i always wonder is If queer was a "offensive" term and gay people took it for themselves...why not take fag? I'm British and we still keep the word fag for cigarettes,food and more het never once heard a boomer say fag to mean a gay person and tranny is used a good thing on trans and drag queens so why not have a gay person just go "I'm a fag and proud" while having a smoking in his mouth and a man sucking his cock (be funny if that's a official shirt modeled by a gay man)

>>40120 Absolutely retarded zoomer.

>>40120 >claims to autistic >proves it with every sentence. Yeah not sure what to say. Culture is complicated, lots of things are paradoxical. Neurotypical folks can live with vast amounts of paradox and cognitive dissonance and it doesn't bother them at all. Quite the contrary. Its foundational to their world view. If autism just a genetic thing then you unfortunately lost the genetic lottery in regards to understanding the relationship between culture, values and behavior. To stand a chance understanding "neurotypical" stuff you are just gonna have to accept that paradox, inconsistency and contradiction aren't a bug, they are a feature.

One think I really like is how easy zoomers seems to be. I'm a mid millennial and I'll run into like 25 year old zoomer kiddos that act like they have never been touched or hugged before. They are totally cuddle starved and as sad as that is it kind of rocks. I swear someday I hope to adopt a whole bunch of them and get a nice place.

>>40085 Move somewhere with BDSM dungeons and meet someone there then move back with them

>>40133 I'm actually gen x Reason my write is a it...shit is cause i struggle writing which has got Better sometimes but i remember this one teacher I did what was told "write story using rule of 3" "write story with a twist" Apparently i always fail and she like "oh well try again" yet I don't see where the problems until I'm actually told

>>40134 Is theorized 8 became autistic due to being stranged by my own cord causing less oxygen to the brain. But is mainly contradictions i don't get which makes culture more hard. Like autism i explain my experience as a adult who can't let their childish side go (not inner child but i can't mentally grow up despite me trying) Adhd,add etc i can fully understand as people who have them explain to me or i ask family. Issue is when neuro diversity became the new trendy word to throw around and...i hated that word. Not cause is a new word but... businesses throw it around like I'm expected to know. Autism itself is a umbrella term cause of different levels of autism which isn't hard to tell unless you ask someone about their experience having it.(Like someone telling me their disabled but i ask in what way). But neuro diversity is from i understand so far is a umbrella term and from what i know about what's in that umbrella is.... awkward since is good we making mental issues known and finding ways of solving it for people struggling. But the awkward bit is people using it like Tumblr uses their sexuality as a personality. Is over positive that's slowly becoming a negative From "autism is a superpower" to "if you walk kn your toes then you might be autistic" as it gives off that "Asian are good with math" like sure your trying to be helpful but your basically sterotyping and expecting that from everyone. I already struggled with understanding faces as i have a neutral 😐 face yet according to family either "look depressed" "mocking me" and more and "you must file cause how many muscles it requires to make that face then a smile" And was in that age where I'm always learning and seeing everything as fact so me having my normal mutual face being seen as always bad made it hard for me to understand other shit. If you want to celebrate these mental issues why not question the bad and see how we can legit make it easier (don't mean make them the black sheep In a crowed) then saying every tiny part is perfect....is not perfect if that person struggling and your over here on tumblr/twitter posting emojis of the neuro diversity flag

>>40141 I learnt that on wiki thay apparently diapers are bdsm Yet seems diapers are the most hated bdsm thing. Cat woman in leather and a whip = meow Add a diaper = "CRINGE,SHE SHITS HERSELF"

>>40138 And people wondering why people with sign's saying "free hugs" exist You just need that human to human contect especially after covid

>>40138 Adopt?

>>40209 Yeah. I'm gonna put you in my basement forever and snuggle you. :3

>>40081 To me it seems like Zoomers are less chill about their fetishes and sex related stuff, and more shameless and over sharing about personal things. I don't really see it as a good thing that a lot of Zoomers seem to have far less interest in keeping personal things like weird sex stuff out of sight of normalfags or even just friends and family that really don't need or want to know about their sexual interests. I still find it bizarre we're at a point where teens and twenty somethings talk online about coming out to their family and friends about ABDL and other fetishes due alphabet propaganda. Most extreme examples of this is Zoomers (of course some older people use the too, but it seems like mostly Zoomers and younger Millennials) posting on places like OnlyFans and then seemingly not understanding why that can lead to a lot of people seeing them as a whore or pervert while hurting their relationships and job prospects for non-sex work. Also... Yeah it is very noticable that ABDL women and to some extent ABDLs in general got more common with disposable diapers. This fetish probably wouldn't be as common if people were still mostly using cloth diapers. Think it's worth noting we rarely hear about ABDLs from less developed countries where use of disposable diapers is less common due to poverty. >>40085 >I wish I was born a woman or gay. I feel your pain, anon. I'm in the same boat. I remember thinking It would be so much easier to be just gay instead of an ABDL. Certainly wouldn't have much need to hide being full blown gay in the West like with ABDL stuff. Also I do agree with sentiment of ABDL and other fetishes being easier for women and I think my interest in TG/TF porn is at least partly tied into this. At the same time I'm also aware that I might not even be in to ABDL if I had been born female due to women in general having lower sex drives than men and women being less prone to fetishism compared with men. It's not just showing vulnerability it's that overt male sexuality is often seen as more threatening than female sexuality. There's plenty of double standards in how women are allowed to behave that if a man acted like that they would much more run the risk of getting registered as a sex offender. Unfortunately most men can't be open about sexual interests outside vanilla or more main stream stuff like BDSM without the risk of being labeled a creep or pervert and this even extends to trusted romantic partners. It's even worse with ABDL due to how normalfags can mistake us for pedos. And yeah the other thing is men aren't really naturally inclined, conditioned, expected, or desired to show vulnerability. A common sentiment I've seen in the ABDL community among men on revealing the fetish to a partner is concern that the non-ABDL partner will either see them as some form of predator, see them as less of a man, or lose respect and love for revealing interest in a niche fetish like ABDL. While it would be nice to have a girlfriend or wife into this there's the likely chance that a woman finding out about her husband/boyfriend's ABDL fetish will not be okay with it either explicitly or implicitly. It doesn't help there's plenty of women out there who will use vulnerability against a man later if she decides she is no longer interested. I know I've got some internalized stuff over this and I know my mental issues aren't just the result of a fetish, but I really don't see most male ABDL porn as appealing. At best femboy/twink ABDLs can sometimes get me interested, but I just find it hard to be into masculine men in diapers. This even applies to myself. I'm well aware I'm a hairy ape of a man which has led to some frustration and annoyance when dealing with TGTF porn communities. It feels like a slap in the face and being dragged back into reality when some tranny online starts bringing up egg bullshit and suggesting crossdressing. My usual response is to either ignore it or tell them to fuck off with their attempted groomer stuff and just let me have the fantasy without their intrusion of tranny nonsense. My own ultimate ABDL fantasies pretty much all involve being the girl (in both dominant and submissive roles) because of my various issues. Here's to hoping the afterlife will allow this or tech progresses enough that putting someone into a new body is viable, but cynically I'm well aware even if the latter did happen it wouldn't be available to poorfags like myself. Thank God for porn and NSFW chat bots that we don't have be afraid of judging or ostracizing us at least. >>40138 Really? I always got the impression Zoomers in general are even more paranoid and risk averse about potential predators, bad relationships, and unwanted physical contact than Millennials. That's a thing with Millennials too, but it seems a lot more common with Zoomers that they avoid intimacy, physical contact, and relationships out of nervous anxiety.

>>40080 I'll never meet someone into abdl (probably will never meet someone period cuz 3/10 face) and this makes me extremely suicidal the only thing keeping me here is the drive to make money to comission more cute diaper art (picrel), and the fear of death t. zoomie

>>40216 Unironically just find a 3/10 woman. Lots of ugly people (women included) are starved for (positive) attention from literally anyone. So don't give up.

>>40258 Unfortunately not applicable in the world of online dating where even a 1/10 cripple can get infinite matches so long as it's a real female. But thanks for at least trying to make me feel better, have some hawt art

>>40259 Go to a department store, grocery, hardware store, etc. Find someone sweeping or stocking shelves. Complement them and ask them out. People like that get treated like shit by every part of society. Treat her like a person and she'll probably do anything you want. The internet is where people go to engage in fantasy, you're not fantasy material and neither am I, so we'll get no attention here. If you're on the internet a lot, your perception of people will be skewed, just look at trends, fads, marketing, Anne politics, it's all bullshit. People still aren't great, a lot of them are shit. But it's better than fake shit. There are options. You might be in a better boat than I. I think I'm fairly attractive, and I'm in pretty good shape, and make decent money. So my standards are too high and I end up getting nothing cause I'm retarded and won't follow my own advice even if I've seen it work. Don't be me, don't be retarded. (Or too thoughtful for your own good) Either way, I do appreciate the art. Bless you for commissioning.