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I've thought a lot about how to go about this with girls and here are my suggestions:
First, what's her style like normally? Does she have any celebrities or influencers she follows? What is their style like? Try to find ABDL girls maybe that have a similar look or style and show her their content.
Although she never said this explicitly I talked to a girl one time who had this idea that all of the ABDL girls are either white or Asian because they're just being submissive to some perverted guy's fantasies, but she thought Sunny was great because she had this stereotypical idea of independent black women, and so Sunny must be legitimately into it and really owning it, and that warmed her up to the idea.
Pull up as many different varieties of diapers and ABDL clothes as you can and show her all the different options that are out there. If she likes clothes, fashion, and design, she'll be really happy to see all the options that exist. Have her pick out some diapers to try based on what she thinks looks cute. This will make her feel more involved in the process, since she's selecting 'her' diapers. And she'll be getting stuff that she at least thinks is cute if nothing else. Maybe get a variety of samples from a place like wearingclouds.com if possible and if the selection isn't bad.
Do the same thing with little's clothing if you can afford to buy her a few pieces without breaking the bank. She'll feel good that she's getting some cute clothes and she can pick out something that fits her style, but also it's clothing that is purposely being bought for being little so she'll feel at least somewhat encouraged to use it in that way. But just making her feel like she's involved in being a part of this and it's not something you're just putting on her will make her more accepting.
On a similar note, any interests or hobbies she's really into, maybe you can think of a way to approach her with integrating that and ABDL. If she's an actress, maybe she can get comfortable with the idea of it being a really freeing acting exercise, where she has to operate without pretensions. If she's into certain designs, or crafts, maybe she can do that in an ABDL context. If she plays videogames, see if you can get her to just wear a diaper for a while she games, even if you're not actively doing anything ageplay with her at the time. If she's into anime and manga, show her cute ABDL art that's done in that style.
It sounds like you guys are already doing some ageplay stuff so that's good, but ask her if there's any scenarios that she would like to try or anything that she thinks about in particular with this dynamic. Try to highlight that if she has answers for it.
In general, show her photos of girls doing ABDL stuff who seem to be happy and legitimately enjoying themselves. Avoid depictions of forced or abusive ageplay dynamics or BDSM unless any of that stuff is a turn-on for her.
If she's comfortable with Pull-Ups at the moment but not diapers just keep her in Pull-Ups as often as you can. Get her used to the idea, then she'll be more open to diapers after Pull-Ups become more normalized for her. Although it's still best to have her pick out diapers based on her own personal tastes and aesthetics, if her main problem is that they feel bulky and uncomfortable, maybe she'd be more open to wearing some thinner medical diapers at first, and slowly work her up to thick ABDL diapers.
Depending on where you live, taking her to an ABDL store and having her walk the shelves and pick things out for herself could be a good move too if possible, but only if you live near one of the really nice, comfortable ones, like ABDLr in Denver.
Probably best to avoid having her meet any other ABDLs at all until she's warmed up to the idea more, given how weird our people can be.
If I think of anything else I'll make another post.