>>43676 I'd assume it's not just a problem with ABDL communities

Everything Absolutely everything has been flooded by brain dead ESLs. It's like the rest of the world finally got DSL or some shit. No one even tries any more. Also, this wasn't worth its own thread. Fuck you too.

I used to be a braindead ESL but I eventually learned by exposing myself to the language, trial and error and using google translate for everything I didn't knew. Just give them time, they'll learn eventually.

>>43686 Key issue here is being braindead or retarded. I survived the 1337 haX0r phase of the internet, poor English is just whatever. It's when they arrogantly carry on using entire phrases incorrectly, and then either try to argue that they're right or pretend they didn't say it at all. If you actually learned, then you're not braindead. I only barely speak a second language myself, and I certainly don't try to shout down those that speak it natively. The problem with hug boxes and safe spaces and the entire degenerative culture that surrounds that rot is that it basically absolves everyone of any incentive to improve, or even adhere to any form of a standard. I think it's just looks like it's a language issue because you're only seeing text. If we were in the same room as these retards, we would see their sloppy clothes, hygiene, body language, etc. The only way to fix it or to have a community without it is to first have a community with behavioral standards. Only problem is then these same retards see that as an invitation to call out every single typo. Which is missing the point entirely. The entire planet needs a paradigm shift to fix this issue. Good fucking luck.

>>43676 i've often wondered if having a diaper fetish makes you more retarded, for the same reasons you're posting about. i don't think i'm particularly dumb, most people tell me i'm pretty smart, but i'm naive and autistic in a lot of interpersonal situations so idk. the ESL thing is because of globalization. even shithole countries have internet access now. and the thing we all have in common across borders, is degenerate sexual interests.

It's been hard to make friends in the community bc everyone I meet is the type of freak to tell their parents and coworkers they're into diapers. I wish there was a group of normal pants pissers

>>43696 This, most of these people barely attempt to learn or change and talking to them is extremely draining (especially in fetish communities like these) because they don't know much besides asking you if you need them to be your CG or "do you wear diapers" and the most boring shit nobody cares about questions ever. Those tranny diaper discords on 4/lgbt/ were more tolerable than anything like the massive ABDL discords or the average disboard dead server or the ABDL chatovod. And? This is because those are well gatekept communities, and most of these retards get filtered out trying to get in because they don't know how to use imageboards. >>43705 If you post here that already means you're not retarded as the cattle on public ABDL discord/telegram/facebook retards so give yourself a good pat on the back buddy. >>43706 This. I just wanna talk about diaper kino and art and not the most dull boring shit everyone knows already. This place is one of the few good places remaining for that if you avoid the shitty threads.

its mostly in the name of being inclusive you get to just run your mouth with raw garbage spewing out. and the mods will tolerate instead of correct it. and suddely you attract an echo chamber of garbage spewers too. so now normal people are booted for saying "hey wait thats wrong" because you just created a bad vibe. and the owner happens to like that user, or youre the source of negativity for not coddling and reinforcing their garbage behavior and going against the grain. tldr - typical online cliqueing is rampant in ABDL

>>43676 Monolingual anglo baby seething over multilingual chads

fr fr

What 'communities' are you even talking about I've seen zero of the sort. Closest thing is that Carotte is french and has a couple french friends

>>43706 I've met a handful of cool people over the years but they're outweighed 10/1 by absolute basket cases. I imagine that the majority of people into ABDL are regular functional adults but that they don't even bother trying to find friends in these circles after seeing all the horror stories about groomers, doxxing, meet-ups, events, etc.

Do you have the time To listen to me whine About nothing and everything all at once? I am one of those Melodramatic fools Neurotic to the bone, no doubt about it Sometimes, I give myself the creeps Sometimes, my mind plays tricks on me It all keeps adding up I think I'm cracking up Am I just paranoid? Am I just stoned? And I went to a shrink To analyze my dreams She says it's lack of sex that's bringing me down And I went to a whore He said my life's a bore So quit my whining 'cause it's bringing her down Sometimes, I give myself the creeps Sometimes, my mind plays tricks on me It all keeps adding up I think I'm cracking up Am I just paranoid? Huh yeah, yeah, yeah (Ooh, ooh) Grasping to control So I better hold on Sometimes, I give myself the creeps Sometimes, my mind plays tricks on me It all keeps adding up I think I'm cracking up Am I just paranoid? Am I just stoned?

From the hundred's of ABDL's I've met at events and munches only 3 I've allowed to become Facebook friends and keep in contact with on a consistent basis. I'm pretty picky who I let into my circle of friends.

Don't worry abdl is becoming increasing trendy among mtf trannies so the fetish is gonna be gentrified with people who can speak english

Every community, fetish related or not, has non english speaking idiots. I think ABDL in general has even less of these people because cute, non-medial, diapers are, mostly, only available in english speaking countries. Also, you know how during summer it can be a pain to wear diapers, now imagine in hot countries. They are even less likely to have ABDL communities. That's all to say if you hate ESL people, you're mostly safe here.

>>43749 hi, i'm not a english speaker :)

>>43742 I love how it's half because they're cute and half just because we need to piss so much if we take spiro. Plus I'm not sure but like, I feel like something it does, similar to like how it makes it impossible to rlly get a full boner or makes it way less sensitive down there, genuinely makes it a bit harder to tell when you need to go? Cuz I'm not even on spiro any more but I still wear a ton because otherwise I'm literally racing to the bathroom most of the time.

>>43676 There are roughly 2 billion Indians in the world, and more of them get internet access every day. They're not segregated from our internet by their government the way the Chinese have been, and they have their own semi-retarded dialects of English thanks to their time as a colony. Almost everything about the way the internet has changed in the past ten years is downstream of this fact and nothing makes sense if you don't understand it.