>>1941 My assumption is that it's a line between accepting someone different than you as a friend and accepting that kind of person as a lover. She can see you aren't so bad despite your desires, but she isn't comfortable being with someone like that romantically. You could think about it like a tranny, if you have that perspective. Many don't care if someone is trans, but they don't wanna date one. As for ghosting, that is shitty, but not that unusual. A lot of people do it with the perspective that there won't be an end to the awkwardness or there will be further advances in the future. Ghosting means that all can be avoided. It's not the right thing to do, but it's easy, so it happens.

>adult female found the problem

Have you never on the other side of unrequited love? Its a constant guilt trip in which you feel like you're letting the person down for not being into them when they're into you. If you value a friendship whatsoever do not try and take it to the next level unless you're 100% sure it will be reciprocated.

>>1945 Based >>1959 how could I be on the other side of unrequited love when nobody loves me desu >>1941 adult women are actually insane and it is a mistake to attempt to decipher any coherent reasoning from them. the reason could literally be anything at all. Maybe she was cold that day, maybe she decided she hated pedos all of a sudden because she saw a film that mentioned children, maybe she saw a tweet from a guy who's username looks vaguely similar to her exboyfriend from highschool and now she hates men (until she needs a free meal), theres no point in trying to figure it out. >>1942 Ghosting happens because people are garbage and adult women are especially bad

>>1961 Your loli wife will be an adult woman one day. What will you do then?

>>1964 make a new one

>>1965 Please be memeing, pedos with the mentality of just pumping and dumping as many children as humanly possible in their lives are fucking despicable if you ask me. No concern at all for the lives they're affecting.

the real problem is girls age past 3

>>1967 >the real problem is sapience Fuck off.

>>1968 tot girls have it they are also best mope grannyfucker

>>1970 post photo of your toned arms and pecs or you're not a real nepi

>>1971 Also please post nepi pp UwU

>>1971 explain why I just nutted to todcon >>1972 maybe

This retard doesn't remember rule 1 of dating: Don't ask out friends (or coworkers.) If you find a woman attractive ask her out, if you don't then be friends with her. You're asking to get friend zoned if you fucking go in as friends first either intentionally or unintentionally. You get exactly what you deserve.

>>1966 This. A true pedo only wants an lg so he can teach her how to be a good adult wife. Antis call this "grooming" because they're assholes.

>>1986 >strengthening your relationship and deepening your bond with your lover as time moves forward is grooming if your lover is below this arbitrary age (((society))) says is okay

>>1988 You aren't fooling us with your romanticized bullshit, pedo. You just want to violently rape and murder children because you are attracted to them!

>>1989 Children should be BANNED to protect them from the pedos! Every child in a bubble. Now. I order it.

>>1990 And I will keep them safe from the pedos. They can all hide in my Church.

>>1990 We should get down to the root of the problem and kill all children tbh

>>1992 Abolish childbirth. Forced abortions for everyone until there are no more people!!

>>1993 Agreed. That'll teach the pedos to love humans.

>>1975 >Don't ask out friends Literally the opposite rule for me. If I want someone, my friends are the best pool to select from since we already have good chemistry and trust built up. And that has always worked out well for me, it seems like a good rule.

>confessing it to a woman Talk about wanting to get bitten in the ass later on. Doesn't matter how friendly or close with someone a woman is she can turn on them in a second.

>>1942 >ghosting Women are pathetic and this is her quiet 'fuck you' for whatever reason, probably cos you broached that you like her, I know it's not logical and you could spend literal years trying to figure out the mindset and get nowhere cos it doesn't make sense to you. Happened to me with a girl I knew for a *fact* who liked me when she was younger (god fucking damn it) when I expressed how I felt to her a few years ago and she didn't even know shit about my other 'preferences', shortly after I was blanked like I didn't fucking exist. It's amazing how quickly a feeling of love can turn to incandescent hatred when the other side is an ignorant piece of shit. I've since given her a HATE stare and then totally ignored her existence, she tried knocking on my door once for something and now I don't give a fuck what it was.

>>2000 >>2001 The line between pedo and incel is quite thin at times

>>2000 >Doesn't matter how friendly or close with someone a woman is she can turn on them in a second. But that applies to pretty much everyone, humans are fickle and it doesn't take much to turn a friendship into a rivalry. To me the idea of trusting someone with a secret that damaging is like implanting a kill switch in your brain and trusting someone to have the controls for it.

>>2002 If you're a true, non-exclusive pedophile then you are a state enforced incel.

>>1959 >Have you never on the other side of unrequited love? Its a constant guilt trip in which you feel like you're letting the person down for not being into them when they're into you. I can't even imagine rejecting a (female) friend unless it was because I was already taken. What would I have to lose? It's a win/win. >>1999 Then you're either a woman or gay. What you say would be logical, but women will friendzone 99% of guys that do that unless she was already wanting to bone him in the first place. You're not building up chemistry and trust as far as she's concerned. Women decide if they want to fuck you the moment they become aware of you, so not beginning by trying to fuck them will only lead to bad things, namely the possibility that you will actually come to be attracted to their personality and begin to want to fuck them later. She will never become attracted to your personality from getting to know you better, so it won't work the same way for her. Either she likes the feeling you give her when she first becomes aware of you, or she doesn't.

>>2262 It feels like what I'm reading is disconnected from reality a bit. I had no romantic or sexual interest in most of my male friends early on in our friendships, yet later, when I knew them well, the idea of trying dating was a welcome one. Also dated several female friends I have never dated anyone that I wasn't friends with for at least a little while first. Let me think... A couple months at the least. At the most I think a couple years (current)

>>2320 You're disconnected from reality and every male in the world knows it. You're living a dream that practically anyone else would kill to have, and everyone else here probably has tried. Being friendzoned, being rejected by a close trusted friend, is a near universal experience for males, usually with the explicit excuse of her saying that you're "too good a friend" or some other illogical shit like that.

>>2334 I can't help but doubt you, anon.

>>2335 One reaction image isn't enough for you. I am so incredibly jealous of your ignorance and the conditions that allow you to be so ignorant.

>>1941 >Ever telling anyone IRL you're a pedophile What a retard. He's lucky he hasn't been v&.

>>3080 That forced separation between a public and private persona due to their ability to ruin your entire life is rough, some people can't cut it. Personally I only have acquaintances in real life because I don't see the point in building anything more with someone when theres no amount of trust I could have that would be enough to be open with them.

>>3080 coward

>>3080 >Not telling your blabbermouth mother in strict confidentiality >Not having it spread to your entire familial and social sphere within 1 week >Not owning up lmao coward

>>3239 9/10 people won't even do anything antis and normalfags act hard but look at examples like Amos Yee who literally only ever got actual problematic shit dropped on him when he was messing with some 14 year old granny the real danger are grannies, not antis, antis are cucks who will pretend their asshurt is actionable then do nothing because it's all virtue signal and they don't care as long as no one finds out they like lgs

>>3253 Lol I saw a video where some guy tried to just pick up someone's daughter and the father was just pushing him away awkwardly. Of course, the people replying to that video put up the typical tough guy act, but in reality, if someone at least as tall and much bolder than you confronts you you're probably going to be on the defensive side.

>>3253 >antis are cucks who will pretend their asshurt is actionable then do nothing It's unexplored territory so I'm sure there's no real protocol on it, but I think it heavily depends on the countenance of the "pedo" in question. If you're a greasy ugly shy manlet loser, then people will be far less accommodating. I am not any of those and will fight a motherfucker, so nobody gave me shit.

>>3257 I'm 6'5" and have told multiple people and no one has ever attacked me for it, including people who have previously spoken ill of pedos lmfao. >>3261 Exactly. If anything the only real risk is them trying to go behind your back to the police state or some shit, or the media. Individuals can talk all kinds of shit about pedos but once the spotlight of character assassination is off them only the most outspoken antipedo cultists actually care about this shit. Back before the antipedo cult and narrative people would just have been like 'oh you like young girls wow who would have guessed you have a penis wowee' and realized it was neither their problem nor business.

>>1986 That's not a pedo, that's just a groomer. Though the question you're left with is if you can groom someone who's legally considered an adult, as an adult.

>>3257 post the sauce on that

>>7092 Idk but here's keemstar showing how "predators" do cold open PUA tactics https://youtu.be/TQwqRwgjQFg

>>3263 To protect against going behind your back just don't allow them any real evidence and then when they do, loudly and publically file an aggressive libel lawsuit and demonstrate to the rest of the cowards what happens when they try to be underhanded. The cops won't act unless they have actual evidence, and unless you are literally picking children up off the street in a white van labeled "free candy" they aren't going to get any without a warrant (which they can't get without a lot of evidence that they don't have). This is why they have to pose online as little girls to reel in the retards, because they can't even nail retards without entrapment.

>>7153 >This is why they have to pose online as little girls to reel in the retards, because they can't even nail retards without entrapment. They can. There is a covert harassment campaign against older white males. They can make arrests just to harass you. The courts and lawyers can act cooperative to them to supplement the lack of evidence.

>>7158 They could, in theory, do this. They won't though, because most police offices are extremely understaffed or so large they won't remember you at all. Even if they did, what you are describing is illegal, and every time they arrest you without evidence and hold you without doing anything you can sue the city for tens of thousands of dollars. The city can't afford the time or the money to fight you, so they will just settle out of court in most cases. It is likely that they will just fire the cops doing that for political points, and any judges or lawyers involved in that process are likely to get in big trouble. The world is shitty but it is not conspiring to slight you, and if they do this to you leap with joy as you call your lawyer for your free money.

>>7159 Addendum: Why do you think they wait until crazy people shuffling down the street do something bad instead of proactively dealing with the problem? Why do you think they collect all possible evidence prior to getting a warrant from a judge?

>>7160 Addendum to your addendum: Why do you think nobody cares when a random homeless person gets iced? Why do you think warrantless beatdowns do go unprosecuted (possibly out of uniform)? It's not because law enforcers value rights, or because they're scared of getting in trouble. It's because they feel like it, and when they decide to do their job right and get evidence so they can get a real collar and not just beat the fuck out of someone they dislike; That was because they felt like it too.

>>7186 You live in a fantasy world, anon. You very clearly have no idea how the world or how LE works if you think anybody, much less a government agent, can just get into fist fights and murder people with zero repercussions. Or do you think we live in china, where people just disappear and nobody asks questions? Lets take your homeless person getting "iced", for example. A cop just randomly decides he wants to murder this random person. If there are witnesses, he goes to jail. If there is a body, he goes to jail. If that homeless person had a family, and they file a missing persons report, he will go to jail. So he has to premeditate it. Which means now there is a chance he gets found out, now he has to walk around with the level of malice required to plan out and execute a murder while also fooling all of his coworkers and the person who does their psych evaluations, all of whom are experts in the field of detecting criminals and how they work. Then he has to destroy all the evidence, get rid of the body, and then carry on the rest of his life as though nothing at all was different. Because... he felt like it? Or actually the entirety of all law enforcement is one big conspiracy composed of hundreds of thousands of people all covering up murders against the most sophisticated forensics methods in a world filled with GPS trackers and cameras. Yeah, that makes sense. Here is a crazy idea though: cops are just blue collar workers who do a job because they need to put food on their table, who neither know nor care whose interests they serve, and will take the easiest path to achieve their primary objective (staying employed) which generally means just being a dick about tickets and not dying.

>>7187 Suck shit motherfucker. Golden State Killer says you're a condescending dumbfuck who's never walked the actual streets.

Pigs are subhuman, niggers are subhuman, anyone that lives in a city with a population over 1000 is subhuman.

>>7187 Stop being rational, it hurts my feelings as a dumby dumb retard.

>>7192 >GPS SEES ALL Yea so rational you retarded fucking zoomers all think gods eye in the sky is watching all, even if it was it wouldn't be penalizing its own men for shit no one else saw. You fucking sacks of shit have probably never even heard of transfers. Cops beat/rape people regularly and get transferred. You're the gullible, pathetic, dumb ones, and I feel sorry for how vulrable you are, life is going to fuck you hard ("hurr durr already has" - it's not done yet retard).

>>7190 >>7193 Sing it with me, like the YMCA Samefag! He posts then cries on the ground! I said... samefag! Acts like an autistic clown! I said... samefag! His skin is probably brown!

>>7194 Cancer and AIDS eating your asshole would be a fate too good for you. Faggot.

I had a dream I was twelve again and there was a weird little box connected to a tiny stair case, and some cute little puerto rican girl the same age had her butt caught in the box and she peido'd. Shit was adorable, and we both hit it off in the dream, and right before I got to cuddle with her in dream, I was woken up with violent pains in my stomach, and I've been sick all day. Why does the universe hate me so? ;(

I forgot I even made this thread.