>How should having a tickle fetish be brought up with a partner The second fucking is on the table, you need to at least hint at it. Bringing it up too late is obviously worst case scenario. Too early is, obviously also not good, but the second you're with someone who is open to traditional sex, that's your window. If someone's willing to take you're dick, they're -generally- open to indulging not-extreme fetishes at least once.

>>42969 *you're dick your goddammit

>>42970 "you are a dick" Fixed it :)

Tickling was brought up straight away in my relationship. She was actually the first one who brought it up, it's common knowledge in my friend group that I like feet and tickling. I don't give a shit that people know. Turns out she shared the kink, we took things from there. Ironically she was aware of my art from like, 10 years before we even knew of each other's existence.

>>42973 stop flexing, kron, this threads clearly about people who's partner isn't into the same thing. ... but yeah my ONLY advice is to try and find a parter into the same thong. how the fuck do you even tell a normie that tickle torture is the only thing that can make your PP hard?

>>42974 same thing*, even. you can be into thongs too, though, that's ok.

>>42969 I don't care how much someone likes me there is simply zero chance that person is gonna wanna get into a pair of stocks it's just way too far out there for them.

>>42976 too bad for you, I suppose

>>42974 Honestly the key is to find someone who is indifferent to it. Like, the majority of normies won’t share the kink, but I can vouch and say that zoomers (my generation) are open to most things as long as it’s not utterly repulsive. Run far away if you find that a prospective partner is going to utterly repulsed by the idea though. You just need someone who is indifferent at bare minimum.

>>42977 It's not just a me problem though lets be honest it's an everyone problem anytime I've ever seen anyone in lee position is if they are being paid for it

Just don't do what this guy did

>>42987 >I was extremely ticklish and was wearing a dress which revealed almost every ticklish parts of my body like my armpits and belly button. Very believable story.

>>42990 Yeah, that line made it clear it was written by a ticklefag. Especially because she was supposed to be sleeping, who the fuck sleeps in a dress.

>>42987 What motivates one to act in such a autistic manner ? Do they simply lack the brain power to feel shame or know better then to do this?

If you find someone who cares about you enough they'll most likely be willing to indulge you. My girlfriend has 0 interest in tickling but she still lets me tickle her to get in the mood. Thank God she's ticklish as hell.

My personal strategy? >Egg ‘em on by poking them and squeezing their sides >Overreact like hell if they get you back >Like even if you are ticklish (I am) act like MUCH more ticklish >Depending on who they are, they could tease you for it, apologize or ask you if you want them to stop >If they react in a way that’s positive or apologetic, respond with either >”I like it too” >or “It’s okay, don’t worry, I like it” >At this stage, they either have a positive attitude towards tickling or they don’t, it really depends on the person >If it’s positive, keep up the play every now and then without pushing it any further until it just becomes a normal part of your relationship >After a while of this, pick a time you deem suitable to sit down and admit that you maybe also might be attracted to tickling sexually >If this has been a sorta regular thing, they’re more likely to take this well, but it’s never 100% certain >If they do, celebrate a job well done by screaming “let’s fucking go” at the top of your lungs right in front of your partner >Alternatively, they might just figure it out before you even admit it, because people aren’t always completely clueless and most have access to the internet >Yadda yadda, they’ll take it good or bad, you get it I’ve used this strategy on a couple partners, and it worked out more often than not. Not a perfect way to go about it, nothing really is, but it’s worked out for me a few times at the very least. Though it probably helps that I’m leaning more lee, I dunno (audible shrug)

>>43289 I like that idea but I don't laugh much at all in general an trying to do fake laugh would probably be painfully awkward

I’m in a weird position with all this. I’ve been with the same girl for over a year now who is not ticklish in any way and even she was surprised when I told her about my fetish and why this didn’t bother me. It’s because I’m a tickling voyeur. I brought it up in another thread but I enjoy watching it happen but don’t like to be involved directly as ler or lee. Meaning I can watch a tickling clip or two to get nice and worked up and then totally fuck her brains out. Maybe it’s because she’s not ticklish and has nothing to be freaked out over but she actually finds the whole tickle fetish scene pretty fascinating. She’s pretty cute in the way that she’s been trying to figure out my preferences and pick what clips I watch herself as a bizarre form of foreplay. Maybe we’ll get to a point where she’d be willing to tickle another girl while I watch. We’ll see…

>>42967 Make a friend. If they're a good friend and you crush on 'em, think about dating. If you notice they're flirty and like you, try to date 'em. Now, here's the trick: Date someone who is open to at least discussing oblong sexual stuff. You'l get to know their openness to this during the Friend or Good Friend stage. Once you're dating, you can be as blunt or strategic as you want. If you like feet, make references to rubbing theirs - or just straight up ask, "so... what kinda quirks of yours should i expect~?" and then trasition to how one of YOUR quirks is kinda sorta feet. Bonus if you meet them in an online area where they already know - or have been made aware of - your lewd inters

>>48899 *interests Oops, accidently'd half a word. And fwiw, this goes for tickles, armpits, bondage, and literally any interest.

My gf has her own, unrelated kink and that was what gave me an in. We discussed it before we started dating and were just friends and that honesty probably helped it to become a relationship. The important thing is that they're open minded, they don't need to be into it, just non-judgemental. They might learn to love it, they might be indifferent. In my case, she loves bondage so we were able to work out something that works for us both. Expect to have to do things they like that you're indifferent to, too, because relationships always come with compromise. If you date someone who is horrified with it or refuses to try, you probably shouldn't date them. Your sexual preference might be unusual, but it's not unusual in itself to have desires. If they can't love you for every part of you, what's the point.

I don't bring it up. It's a trap, because if you bring it up right away you sound like you're just wanting to force your depraved fantasies on them and if you wait to bring it up it sounds like you were hiding things. I wait until they invariably want to know what my fantasies are or what turns me on, then I softball into the prospect and never call it tickling. Light touches, super gentle massages, teases, etc. It takes a lot of patience and a little subversion but if done right you basically have them introduce YOU to the fetish so you can 'admit' that the crazy thing we did last night was really hot. At that point the association to pleasure is ingrained and you're golden with the freedom to pivot further into the fetish.

>>48964 This may hands down be the best way to approach things I’ve read in here so far. Would suck though if you went to all that trouble and time only to find out she’s not ticklish or had an obnoxious laugh when she’s tickled or something else unfortunate.

I got lucky on my end because she brought up her kinks first which paved the way for me to share mine.

Ive always just been open and upfront. Whether they are kinky or not, Ive just said this is me and explain things what I like and ask them what they think. havnet had anyone run or be repulsed. Most have been curious and tried it to some degree.

Like this. "Hey bitch! You ticklish?!"