Thanks everyone. Glad to have helped breathe some life back into this thread.
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>I wholeheatedly agree, and as 'boring' as it might sound, it's all about communication.
Yeah. It's the core of any good relationship, but it's particularly important in kink relationships. Especially if you're ever doing any CNC or intox play or anything like that.
For your other questions, we're getting off-topic talking about incontinence but sure.
>I assume this now means you're a bedwetter. Have you ever had messy accidents/overflow during the night/morning?
Specifically messing? I usually poop my diaper when I get out of bed in the morning. If not then, then after I've changed and I'm down making coffee. Something about the smell gets my muscles pushing for some fucking reason. There's been a few times I've either woken up in the middle of pooping or don't recall waking up for it, but they're definitely more like the exception than the rule.
If you mean peeing then yeah. First bit of control I lost, maybe 3 years into 24/7. And yeah, more than a few leaky diapers overnight until we figured our shit out. Disposable under a layer of cloth with plastic pants over top, only had a handful of leaks since then.
>day-to-day, when at home, when out, etc
Home is simple. Fill diaper, change diaper, wear diaper, repeat. There's not a ton of management stress there, outside of dealing with a couple extra chores. Taking out the diaper pail trash, unpacking diapers when they come in and keeping other shit stocked like powder and wipes.
While out is mostly the same, it just means having my diaper bag with me. The management aspect there mostly comes from needing to always be aware of my diaper's state, something I can usually get away without worrying about at home with mommy around. Then there's needing to know ahead of time where good spots for any potential changes will be, finding good spots if I'm not able to do that research ahead of time, what level of diapering is going to be appropriate for where I'm going, dealing with leaks, finding clothes that aren't just fucking jeans that'll still be stylish as well as concealing, having The Talk with any new friends and dealing with any other people who have found out. There's more, shit like handling diaper rashes and shitting in inconvenient places, but you get the picture.
>What about your circle of friends
My friend groups are mostly kink ones, so Love and I are able to be more or less open around them. The ones that are vanilla or who don't care for ageplay, we just tone it down and keep it more practical. Less baby talk, more 'maybe you should go see if you need to change'.
>family
My side knows because I was a dumbfuck as a teenager and got caught multiple times. It's gotten to the point where they accept that it's a big part of me, even acknowledge it sometimes. Wife's family knows she's a freak but doesn't know about our dynamic, at least as far as we're aware.
Mostly we just keep quiet about it around both sides though. I'll diaper up thick enough to handle wherever we go without leaks and change myself when needed, while she basically pretends my diapers don't exist.
>work
This one's probably the most fucked. I work in close quarters with people and we don't have any private bathrooms in-office, so unfortunately pretty much everyone there knows I have a medical issue, including my bosses. I keep a handle on making sure I don't stink though and that's mostly been enough for everyone.
I don't get invited to any after work drinks or anything and I've had a few people request different assignments to get away from me, but eh, fuck em. I'm just there for the paycheck.
>assuming she does most of the labour when you're togethe as part of the dynamic?
More or less yeah. Really depends on how in the mood for it all we both are. That and our schedules don't line up, so I usually end up changing myself in the morning and at work if I need one, while she'll change me after work and before bed. It's really only on the weekends that we go full dynamic, assuming both of us are up for it.