To get a girlfriend you have to be a jester. You have to be funny, and to always take the lead in and start conversations with her. Take charge and be assertive and do everything. She is a strong empowered women, but also if she feels even for a second that you aren't fully in charge, she'll drop you without a second thought. She will immediately discard you as a potential bf for things you say, the way you say them, or even for something you didn't say, or your facial expression that you showed for a nanosecond. You will constantly be on a knife edge and the slightest slipup as perceived by her, will render you unfuckable to her.
Above all you must never show any negative emotion, especially sadness or melancholy. Never ever complain. Even if your dog, a trusted companion with whom you shared many cuddles, has just died violently after you stubbed your toe and your mother has cancer, it doesn't matter. Do not complain, and DO NOT CRY. There is an exception to this negative emotions, and that is anger, if it is directed at another man who did something wrong, and if you win a fight or get him to back down, but only if she doesn't fancy him. If she does, you'll be seen as nasty and going too far. It can quickly turn to unattractive whinging. Except for when it isn't.
You see, you have to be funny. At the right time, but not too often or too little. You must be aggressive but not too much, and at the right time. You must be this and that, but not too much, and at the right time. It is like Goldilocks and the three bears. It makes no sense, but such is the mind of a woman. You may even find as I have that a woman deems you unattractive and wants nothing to do with you because of reasons, meanwhile another man is even worse in those same aspects, and yet he gets a free pass. Women are all utterly insane. They are all bipolar, borderline, histrionic, sex obsessed yet puritanical, nasty creatures.
Alternatively, you can be rich. Then you can get any hole you like. Maybe. Or not.
The true answer is you just need to be yourself and put yourself in social situations over and over, and try and win the lottery because that's all it is.
I hate women.