>>466314
>being tall doesn't get you good quality ladies.
pretty much every woman wants the guy to be significantly taller than her. some may settle for only slightly taller, and a few might even tolerate same height or shorter. but the majority want significantly taller, and many of them are fixated on 'magic numbers' like 180cm, 6' (183cm), or 185cm. I don't think lacking a strong height preference correlates significantly with the woman being 'quality'... if she has good genes and is beautiful, she probably has a high self-esteem and high standards in a prospective partner. she wants to be able to brag about her tall chad bf to her girlfriends and walk around in public holding hands with him making other women seethe. I think the fantasy of 'oh you just need to find the imaginary perfect non-shallow girl that will love you for who you are' is not realistic. the whole romantic fantasy of "finding love" and all that, I'm over it
I don't want an attractive single woman to look at me and think, "he'd be cute, if he wasn't short". I want her to just think, "he's cute". the problem isn't even that I'm 'not tall', it's that I'm actually rather short (5'7-5'8). once I get my femurs done, I should be 5'10, which is basically adequate since that's no longer short, it's just not tall. I could then also do the tibias and get to 6', but I probably won't because the tibias tend to have more complications and I doubt I'll want to spend twice as much money and go through that whole arduous process twice
also I don't have short genes, I actually have tall genes and stunted growth (old mother that had problems while pregnant, poor nutrition as a kid), so I would expect my future sons to be taller than me and I don't want to be totally heightmogged by them when they're like 14
>I've never met anyone who wanted to be with a tall lad just for their height alone who I'd want to be with
it's not "just for height alone" unless the guy is some 6'6 goober and the girl is 5'11 and very self-conscious about it, and he's the first guy that's over 6" taller than her that showed interest. but it's one variable of many and height happens to be one of the more important variables to most women. if you notice when women list the things they like about their man, the list always begins with "he's tall, "
>, and same with dick size, you are wasting your energy in pointless pursuits la.
>>466316
>basically, I have a thicc benis and the only ones it matters to are the ones you don't want tbh
it matters to some extent to all women. you don't need a horse cock but I believe it helps a lot to have above-average girth. more girth = more pleasure for the woman, just makes it a lot easier to satisfy her than poking around with some pathetic needle trying to find the g-spot in the vajaystack. I think around 6.5x5.25" should be good, that's 80th percentile. currently about that in length but the girth is still average. making good progress though, clamping is so effective and I'd highly recommend