>>71993 >Did any of you found out something horrible about your waifu that you didn't know about before? Well, sort of… There is indeed something horrible that I found out about Flandre that I didn’t know before falling in love with her, but I found it early in our relationship. ZUN basically said that since Flandre has always been fed with cooked dishes, she doesn't know how to properly attack a human for feeding on their blood. So he claimed that whenever she tries to attack a human, she can't control herself and blows them away without leaving a spot of blood. The idea of Flandre obliterating innocent people to oblivion is horrifying, at least to me. To better cope with this statement from ZUN, I basically told myself that: 1-Touhou has contradictions and incoherences. In this situation, I’m wondering why Flandre would come across humans she could feed upon (i.e. one that doesn’t live in Gensokyo and therefore isn’t protected by the contract) if she mostly always remains inside of her room where cooked food is always brought to her. Also, canon manga Cheating Detective Satori has shown that Flandre can display a very good amount of self-control in battle, so that would be strange if she was to lose all this self-control during feeding. Finaly, Flandre told Reimu, during their first encounter, that she had only ever seen humans in the form of drink, but as she definitely had seen Sakuya before, I’ve always imagined that Flandre was only trying to provoke Reimu by saying that. So for those reasons, I have doubt that what Zun said is even true in the first place, and I prefer to consider this statement untrue. 2-If it is indeed true, well, at least it seems that blowing those humans was not done on purpose, but was rather an accident due to the lack of training when it comes to feeding on live humans. 3-I also tell myself that Flandre IS a vampire, and that hurting humans is part of her nature and that I have to accept it, either she blows them up in a failed attempt to feed on them or indirectly hurt them by eating/drinking human-based food that is prepared for her. I myself do eat animal meat and I did kill a few fishes myself when I went fishing. Sure, I don’t want to compare cattle, chickens, pigs and fishes to humans, but we’re all part of the food chain and I can’t blame a creature for killing another if it’s to survive. >Is it even possible to still love your waifu after? Yes! I do still love Flandre regardless!

>>72038 >Call it being realistic, cynical, or just anxious, but it’s possible to be in love while at the same time thinking that there is a possibility that the relationship will not last forever. Very well then, with your permission I shall call it cynical, calculating and manipulatory >>72028 Anon, it's about *feeling*, not *thinking*. Often times we think to compensate for a lack of emotion, it's true, but it's not an ideal situation. And my general point is, it's okay to write characters in a way that portrays them as selfish and underhanded, but it's NOT okay not to highlight these flaws of them. If you fail to bring up that their behaviour is not ethically commendable, you are lying by omission

>>71993 OP here. I'm going to schizo blog post about why I made the thread. My waifu is Momiji Inubashiri, the white wolf tengu from Touhou. Later on 4chan/pol/ I found out that tengus in ancient Japan may actually be jews posing as mythological creatures. In fact, there's video of a Japanese TV show that shows all of the links of the tengu actually being jews. https://www.bitchute.com/video/M3D1Ad0uXqwa Here is the catbox link, even though this version was shortened: https://files.catbox.moe/68561u.mp4 But general proof/consensus: >Star of David/Star of Remphan being a symbol of Israel shows up a lot at Japanese temples associated with tengus. >Mt. Kubote in Fukuoka where it is said the tengu once lived in. It is said in the 5th century A.D. a goblin appeared in the mountain and surprised people. A museum curator pulled out an old scroll drawing of the tengu/goblin. It looked like a man with a long nose. >The tengu has a strong resembelence to the mask of the Hata people with the huge nose. >The small black tokin boxes/tokin hat which the tengu put on their head is very similar to custom in Judaism of phylactery, which according to Britannica, is a Jewish religious practice, one of two small black leather cube-shaped cases containing Torah texts written on parchment. The TV show in the video actually went to the Jewish community center in Tokyo and talked to (((Rabbi Henry Noah))), to confirm the customs are similar. >Japanese story of Ushiwaka-maru receiving a tora no maki (basically translates to tora scroll) from the Kurama Tengu after finishing his training. This is mostly linked the crow tengu (like Aya, Hatate, and Megumu), but the fact that Momiji, being a tengu may be a jew was heartbreaking. I do identify as NatSoc after all and hate jews, now my waifu is a jew? How could Momiji be a jew? She's strong, loyal, honest, have a strong sense of justice, dutiful, and even motherly. Traits a jew doesn't have.

Happy Halloween (belated) and All Saints' Day (on time)!

I love Halloween

Belated! Awoo! Next holiday is American Thanksgiving and Black Friday!

Heya im Yuni Im currently a 19 year old student at the moment , i study graphics design and that's my favorite thing to do lately , i also like some tech stuffs as well My girlfriend since April 16th is Niizuki from Azur Lane. I met her via my friend from year that plays Azur Lane when i saw her i felt something positive inside so i started pursuing that love. I like her aspect that she's not giving up , even if she makes a lot of mistakes she's learning and not giving up. I recently watched 16crystals video about waifuism and i was relived to see that there is more people out there loving their waifus.. So i hope me and Niizuki can find place in this community and maybe learn a thing or two from more experienced people. I see you have a discord so i will try applying for this as well. Have a great Night/Day :D

>>71935 Nothing wrong with short introductions, sometimes there's a lot of juice behind just a handful of words. Welcome aboard >>71984 Welcome. It sounds nice to hear that you are artistically talented, maybe you could produce your own art about your waifu sooner or later? >16crystals video about waifuism Okay, first time I hear of this, I am definitely going to inquire

>>71984 Welcome to /mai/! You asked to join the Discord server about 3 weeks ago but then didn’t join. You are always welcome to ask for a new link! >>72015 >Okay, first time I hear of this, I am definitely going to inquire Here’s the link. I hope you will like it! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1yRJCfTuAw

>>72043 we are getting into schizophrenic territory i see

>>72036 >I would argue that only you can damage your relationship with another person, because you are the one that decides how you feel. A fine argument and I can say we get to act about how we feel, but wouldn’t agree that we have a full control about how we feel, if the average person actually possessed that ability lots of problems and things would be avoided, since people constantly act fully on feelings and then regret it, an extreme but simple example would be someone cheating because they had a huge fight with their girlfriend/wife just to regret it after the anger dissipates. >Perhaps, but this is just an assumption you're making based on your view that most people cannot change this. Let’s not go down this rabbit hole anon, this is a two way street and what im saying its an “educated guess” (which you could maybe agree on since you literally stated that most people would agree with my line of thinking "but with how you've gone from saying I'm talking out of my ass to claiming I'm advocating for conformity when I'd say most people, including yourself, would disagree with me") not a complete assumption, you yourself argue that “Because I don’t feel jealous anyone can do the same”, isn’t that a massive assumption, actually my “Alright, how do you know he could?” was a response to your assumption that he could, which again was based only in that you can, so who is really assuming here ? I would say both of us. >In my life, I have really liked several girls. If they ever did not like me back because they liked someone else, I don't recall ever feeling negatively toward the person they liked because of it. If anything, it was my opinion of the girl that decreased with time. So, you never felt jealousy, honestly I don’t think you can talk much about jealousy then, this is like someone talking about depression while never getting even close to suffering depression, you quite literally are talking not from your experience (or at least that seems to be the case) but what you know about the feeling probably due to osmosis. >If it's something where my waifu is being shipped with someone else, I recognize that if I don't look at it, it simply doesn't exist. She is a fictional character and any perception of a relationship with me or anyone else exists entirely within my imagination. So, your relationship exists in a vacuum, completely disconnected from everything else? Can’t really understand that being honest anon, to me my relationship with my waifu is not in my “imagination”, it’s a fact, so I can’t really say much about something I fundamentally don’t get. >The rest of the post. You’re really an oddity huh, pretty much everything exists in a vacuum to you it seems, not interacting with any other thing and you don’t even seem to have much “emotions” in general (or at least the way you talk about it doesn’t show em), you can and completely decide based on what you think more than what your emotions and feelings, which again its completely fine and valid but it’s not the case for most, and assuming that anyone can reach what you are based only in what you think is delusional, we need to look objectively at our experience of this world and what it brings before talking about someone else, especially when it comes to emotions which vary wildly between individuals, but well, that’s just my opinion I guess. >>72039

>>72045 >watching someone else talk about her is weird, because she’s my wife so why is some weird schmuck on the internet talking about a relationship with her ? But im guessing for people who can enjoy the existence of dupes this doesn’t really happen? Gotta wonder, at that point aren’t they just fans? I have had the same impression. I see nothing wrong with me being jealous, what rubs me the wrong way is that my competitors do not seem to be jealous. Are they even being serious about being in love with a fictional character? Maybe not fully, and they just see them as a placeholder until they get into a regular relationship. As proof of this theory of mine, I have been in anime Discords where the same people would profess really being into this specific anime girl, and also post hentai unrelated to that character, OnlyFans stuff and cosplayer photos >I can say we get to act about how we feel, but wouldn’t agree that we have a full control about how we feel I agree here as well. I don't buy the Buddhist/Stoic idea that we have complete control over our emotions. Why just our emotions then? Why not physical reality as well? Why can't I levitate just by willing it? Keeping our negative emotions at bay while dealing with others is NOT the same thing as outright deciding our inner emotional make-up I also agree that people who have never felt particularly negative emotions (being it jealousy, hopelessness, constant anger and what not) should not lecture those who claim to be undergoing emotional distress

How do I stop being so sensitive of her? Like I can't even enjoy fan art of her or even her own source material anymore because it's like there's always something I find that makes me feel so... uncomfortable, it's like this cocktail of emotions of anger, sadness, regret and guilt. I really don't know how this started, I remember one day I felt fine and then just all of a sudden I can't even look at her anymore without feeling so inadequate, like I never done anything for her and that I'll never make it up to her. I have made my own art of her in the past and now, but it never feels like it's enough. Sorry if my post is really vague or difficult to comprehend, I'm too much of a sperg to be able to identify what I'm feeling and to be frank I have no clue how to explain this.

>>71982 If you're feeling that inadequate, there are probably issues running deeper than just relating to her. If it's really that bad, there's no issue with taking a step back for a while and focus on something else until you feel better.

>>71982 >like I never done anything for her >never feels like it's enough I share the impulse to be a Provider and to always romantically pursue her heart, but also take care not to be too transactional. I'm sure she loves your art but it almost sounds like you feel compelled to fill an Art/Service/Gift "quota" that must be regularly met to "earn" her love -- when I don't think such a dynamic exists in a loving relationship, 2D or 3D. She loves you just for being you, just like you do for her :)

Last night I (sort of) dreamed of Flandre. It was a weird dream. I was inside a sort of hyperrealist videogame which was also partly reality… I guess dream logic made this world both virtual and real at the same time… So I was in this game/reality and I recall having a weapon inventory similar to the guns available in Resident Evil 4. The place was some sort of gigantic convention as there were multiple people cosplaying all sorts of characters. At some point, I reached the entrance of a room that was absolutely humongous, like a sort of massive stadium with at least 500 000 people in it. I remember being impressed by how many people were in there and I took my semi-automatic snipper rifle (from Resident Evil 4) to zoom in in the crowd as to see if the game was rendering people’s face properly as I could not see them well from afar. Not sure when exactly, but at some point, I got inside that huge room and I met a girl who was cosplaying as Flandre. I recall her being extremely beautiful and attractive. For reasons that I can’t remember, I started talking about those weird stories and characters I used to create with a friend during my early teenage years. We talked for a little while and a few other people joined us, but then we got separated at some point. I got out of that huge room and walked in the rest of the building, which was also full of people. At some point I entered a restroom and there was full of arcade machines inside of it, including retro ones. Then, I don’t know why I suddenly did this, but I yelled to all the guys in the restroom: "Hey, let’s all go shoot everyone in that huge crowded room!!", and all the guys in the restroom answered a loud manly "YEEEAAAAH!!!" and we went to shoot people in the huge room, but sadly I woke up before I could reach it. In the end, I wish I could have spent more time with the Flandre cosplayer and ultimately go with her to shoot everyone in the huge room.

No. Not yet. I guess I am not worthy enough or there is something wrong with me. Maybe I'm not committed/fanatical enough.

sometimes i have sleep-paralysis. some times those who have sleep-paralysis sometimes say they see "the hat man" https://monster.fandom.com/wiki/Hat_Man i did not see "the hat man" i saw my waifu i now believe that "the hat man" IS my waifu i now believe that everyone who sees "the hat man" is really seeing my waifu. who is waiting for them

This is probably the kind of inside humor you need to be in the Discord to understand

Happy 10th Anniversary of jerking off to anime girls who are better than real life girls. Also, Always Awoo!

Here's hoping to another 10 years! Happy anniversary.

Happy 10th birthday, /mai/! What a milestone! and what a wonderful group of friends. You have all helped my love for Mink grow even stronger and I can only hope I've returned the favor for the ones you love :) And shoutout to 16crystals and Vit for keeping this ship afloat and thriving for as well as you have for as long as you have. None of us would be here without your hard work at building and maintaining this welcoming, encouraging community. Now Let's party!!

Barely anything? Most of her material is fan interpretation and head canons.

Not a single crumb of new canon in... 30 years ;_; But I don't really mind since I'm a super possessive & jealous lover, and this keeps her obscure. I am pretty starved for Lore though, so I have to do a lot of headcanoning >broadens her universe and/or makes her plot advance even Dragon Half canon material barely accomplishes this, lol Still, I am blessed to love a true protagonist with an entire series centered around her. The canon material I did get is saturated with my wife by definition. I feel for the lovers of minor side characters with limited screentime

The Sandman audiobook part 3 came out this year and part 4 is coming out next year i really like Kat Dennings as my waifu https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3NTpGtmhfg i HATED the Netflix show

New one!

>>71921 kino

>>71923 Usual stuff of them being liars, two-faced, hypocrites, being manipulative and using you and playing with your emotions when you're not in the best mental state for their own enjoyment. I never met a good Flandre fan in my life.

My waifu cannot drive unfortunately

My waifu patrols the mountains, so she would probably need a rally car, when she can't run or something. So probably the Toyota GR Yaris Rally1. Bonus: The colours of the car match her colour set (the 2022 and 2023 liveries that is). Here's the car being tested by Sébastien Ogier https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbkXQijMcOw

in the 80's Japanese anime was some weird niche thing. in the West the one 2 that where popular was my neighbor totoro and speed racer in the 90's is when western anime exploded Toonami was running Saler Moon and Dragon Ball z that is what everyone wanted in the '90s go they made what the audience wanted Cardcaptor Sakura, Yu yu hakusho Evangelion, Pokemon all of them are Saler Moon and Dragon Ball z look-alikes all of them designed to sell toys and trading cards then something changed in the 2000's Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya after that, everyone wanted waifu's

>>71572 >>71582 >Why? Have you ever dealt with real life women? Real life women who are actually good people are insanely fucking rare and they are never single.

>>71927 <Real life women who are actually good people> every time you meet a woman ed she automatically thinks that you could possibly be a predator and they have to carry pepper spray and tasers to defend themselves against you no matter how good we are a woman could easily just divorce us take half our money and our kids if you're unhappy in a relationship that's your own damn problem but if a woman's unhappy in a relationship that's also your fucking problem basically you better be able to provide or you're a loser. source: me multiple times over and over

>Just wanted to know if anyone else could relate to this. Absolutely. When I first got my daki, it was a massive game changer for me and I was only able to see the positive at first. But then, at some point, I started to notice that I was treating my daki as if it was my waifu herself, and not just as an object acting as a link between me and her. Maybe it was me who was unconsciously trying to forget the painful reality that I could never concretely be with Flandre, but in the end, realizing what I was doing made me feel like I had partially lost contact with her on a spiritual level. So what I did was to do my best to keep in mind that I tended to treat my daki as Flandre herself (therefore forgetting the real Flandre who is a fictional character, an idea, a concept), and whenever I saw myself making that mistake, I promptly changed my focus from the daki and redirected it to Flandre. For what I remember, it didn’t take that long for me to correct that bad pattern. For me, as long as I kept in mind that the daki was just an intermediate link between me and Flandre, I was able to use the daki as a mean to better spiritually and emotionally connect to Flandre (i.e. better than if I did not have the daki). So I suggest you to try the same as I did at first. If you realize that it isn’t working, then maybe you could try putting your daki away for about 2 weeks or a month and see if it helps in the end (and if it does, then try to reintroduce your daki and see if you can maintain the gain). >Even in my dreams (which I seldom have of her to begin with) she appears as a daki, not as full anatomically complete animated being. Same for me. I have dreamed of my daki multiple times, but I very seldom dreamed of Flandre as a full person in front of me. I personally don’t see it as a problem as I consider that it’s probably easier for my mind to represent, in my dream, a physical object that I see every day then a 2D character which can’t concretely exist in my physical 3D reality. >I also have been a "flat-on-my-back" sleeper for most of my life and sideways sleeping just isn't really my thing. First of all, a daki is far from just being a thing to hold while sleeping. It’s a material representation of your waifu that can help you better feel her presence in all aspects of your day-to-day life. As for sleep, you can have your daki close to you by your side and hold it with one arm, or lay it on top of you. Even without holding it, just having it next to you at night should help you better feel your waifu’s presence. I hope all of this helps you. Let us know later if your situation improved or not!

before i was a waifuis i have a teddy bear that i sleep with, i hold my bear every time i watched a movie or played a vidia. i see dakimakuras the same way i see a stuffed animals i do not have a daki of my waifu but i will post a pic of my waifu as a daki

Based Averi enjoyer.

>>71870 never stop posting averi