>>70617 Hello, ban me please :D

>>72059 You can now make a new post and find the Discord link that will automatically appear in the ban message. See you soon!

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Belated! Awoo! Next holiday is American Thanksgiving and Black Friday!

>>72086 Do you think feeling negative emotions and somehow getting rid of them are one and the same process? Because in my view, they are not. Feeling unhappy today does not mean you will be free from unhappiness tomorrow

>>72086 Sure they would benefit but again we fall into the same thing we talked about countless times in the thread, thats not the experience for most, most people will live with these kind of feelings forever because they're just as normal as happiness, sadness, distress, pity, fear etc. As said prior this advice can even be potentially dangerous since on their efforts to "release" this emotions they could mistakenly end up supressing them or bottling it up, which has multiple negative side effects, I think you mean well anon, but this isn't the unique way to about jealousy.

>>72087 Will fully feeling emotions from one experience prevent you from ever feeling that emotion again? No. But it will help you to emotionally move past that experience. A lot of emotional pain people feel is extended way past its necessary length because people repress the emotion, feeling a low level of it unconsciously for a long time and then in the end feeling even worse when they finally do accept it later. People also internalize negative experiences as a way to make themselves feel better momentarily, again leading to bad outcomes later. (Someone telling themselves there is something wrong with them for being rejected because it's an easier way to make the pain go away than acknowledging that you are still a good person and some people will not like you regardless, as an example. It's adopting a flawed view of the situation to lessen emotional pain.) >>72088 I mean at that point we're just saying that any information exchange at all is bad because it can potentially be misinterpreted and lead to difficulties. Like I said above, pain is a part of life, but suppressed or internalized pain is unnecessary and perhaps helpful in the short term but overall worse in the long term.

>>72080 >Look who’s here again What do you mean, you are the one who took 4 days to reply. >Because this is immoral Which Morality Code says falling in love is immoral except within the approved boundaries? Sounds like a thoughtcrime if you ask me >we developed pair bonding and monogamy for good Irrelevant when discussing 2D crushes. Let me know when I can get legally married to my waifu, then we can compare 2D and 3D relationships >is causing unnecessary pain To... ? >even evolution would agree There's no Mrs. Evolution that can be reached out for comments, you are just using the scientific concept to back your personal convictions.

>>72081 >What do you mean, you are the one who took 4 days to reply. I merely said that because you regardless of when, appeared again, had you posted that a week ago or an hour ago you're still here. >Which Morality Code says falling in love is immoral except within the approved boundaries? Sounds like a thought crime if you ask me What I said is immoral is polygamy which most current civilized moral codes consider wrong, falling in love in itself isn't immoral per se what's immoral is how you act due to it, you can fall in love with how many girls you want, but when you go and actually practice polygamy with them that's when it turns immoral, admittedly reading it again it can be misunderstood as love in itself, my bad there. Regarding the "thought crime" point, you can think what you want just as I can think what I want about what you think, and I don't think you should be penalized in any way shape or form due to disagreeing with me (or holding views I see as immoral), but I sure will express distaste if I feel like it, we are both humans with free will and freedom of expression. >Irrelevant when discussing 2D crushes. Let me know when I can get legally married to my waifu, then we can compare 2D and 3D relationships Aha, finally something that explains what you as an actual individual believe and therefore why we are clashing here, you see to me waifuism is a relationship and a true waifuist would treat (to some degree) his waifu as if she was real, this includes not cheating on her obviously, it seems we have fundamentally opposed views here (at least from this little text, I could be wrong). >To...? Refer to my answer to the previous point, you would cause the anime girls pain if they were real, let’s not kid ourselves, most people won’t enter a polyamorous relationship. >There's no Mrs. Evolution that can be reached out for comments, you are just using the scientific concept to back your personal convictions. Any scientist would gladly tell you that a theory is data + interpretation, and it is always human beings who interpret Not really? Im just saying that without monogamy we wouldn’t be here (obviously we aren’t here only thanks to monogamy), if it wasn’t so good then we wouldn’t have eventually gotten to it, especially since there’s precedent of polygamy in the past, it was literally rooted out for most humans and even as society’s we have constantly considered polygamy and in general being with more than one partner wrong and immoral (at most “admirable” if you’re a man, something I don’t agree with). >Yeah, you for example totally sound like a friendly, reliable and understanding person who can be trusted with delicate information. Again, you can think what you want just as I do, moving on. >Try being less judgemental if you want people to trust you with their secrets. The way you conflate "honesty" and "immorality" makes it clear that you intend to be heavily judgemental with whatever information reaches you. That's how you get people to whisper behind your back that you cannot be trusted and should be kept at arm's length I wont be and I don’t care if people trust me or not, and despite what you say I hold enough information (given to me directly by the individuals and not gossip) to make a decent post, but I wont because its personal, even if im judgmental that doesn’t mean ill hate you for it, if anything when someone is honest even if I disagree with it they at least get some respect since they’re being honest.

>>72083 >you're still here. Got a problem with that? Yeah, I guess you do >I don't think you should be penalized in any way shape or form due to disagreeing with me You will excuse me if I say you don't sound particularly credible here. >you see to me waifuism is a relationship If this were true you wouldn't see multiple people with the same waifus... unless that means the waifu is somehow polygamist? So maybe the problem lies with the individual character? >I could be wrong I'd say you are, because you are not bringing up the elephant in the room that monogamy should go both ways and that it feels just fake to promise unconditional monogamous love to a character when another waifuist is also in love with that character, and maybe they are even noisy about it >you would cause the anime girls pain if they were real

>>71993 OP here. I'm going to schizo blog post about why I made the thread. My waifu is Momiji Inubashiri, the white wolf tengu from Touhou. Later on 4chan/pol/ I found out that tengus in ancient Japan may actually be jews posing as mythological creatures. In fact, there's video of a Japanese TV show that shows all of the links of the tengu actually being jews. https://www.bitchute.com/video/M3D1Ad0uXqwa Here is the catbox link, even though this version was shortened: https://files.catbox.moe/68561u.mp4 But general proof/consensus: >Star of David/Star of Remphan being a symbol of Israel shows up a lot at Japanese temples associated with tengus. >Mt. Kubote in Fukuoka where it is said the tengu once lived in. It is said in the 5th century A.D. a goblin appeared in the mountain and surprised people. A museum curator pulled out an old scroll drawing of the tengu/goblin. It looked like a man with a long nose. >The tengu has a strong resembelence to the mask of the Hata people with the huge nose. >The small black tokin boxes/tokin hat which the tengu put on their head is very similar to custom in Judaism of phylactery, which according to Britannica, is a Jewish religious practice, one of two small black leather cube-shaped cases containing Torah texts written on parchment. The TV show in the video actually went to the Jewish community center in Tokyo and talked to (((Rabbi Henry Noah))), to confirm the customs are similar. >Japanese story of Ushiwaka-maru receiving a tora no maki (basically translates to tora scroll) from the Kurama Tengu after finishing his training. This is mostly linked the crow tengu (like Aya, Hatate, and Megumu), but the fact that Momiji, being a tengu may be a jew was heartbreaking. I do identify as NatSoc after all and hate jews, now my waifu is a jew? How could Momiji be a jew? She's strong, loyal, honest, have a strong sense of justice, dutiful, and even motherly. Traits a jew doesn't have.

>>72054 Now this is an effortpost

>>72060 >effortpost I consider it a schizo post based on real life mythology and historical research.

How do I stop being so sensitive of her? Like I can't even enjoy fan art of her or even her own source material anymore because it's like there's always something I find that makes me feel so... uncomfortable, it's like this cocktail of emotions of anger, sadness, regret and guilt. I really don't know how this started, I remember one day I felt fine and then just all of a sudden I can't even look at her anymore without feeling so inadequate, like I never done anything for her and that I'll never make it up to her. I have made my own art of her in the past and now, but it never feels like it's enough. Sorry if my post is really vague or difficult to comprehend, I'm too much of a sperg to be able to identify what I'm feeling and to be frank I have no clue how to explain this.

>>71982 If you're feeling that inadequate, there are probably issues running deeper than just relating to her. If it's really that bad, there's no issue with taking a step back for a while and focus on something else until you feel better.

>>71982 >like I never done anything for her >never feels like it's enough I share the impulse to be a Provider and to always romantically pursue her heart, but also take care not to be too transactional. I'm sure she loves your art but it almost sounds like you feel compelled to fill an Art/Service/Gift "quota" that must be regularly met to "earn" her love -- when I don't think such a dynamic exists in a loving relationship, 2D or 3D. She loves you just for being you, just like you do for her :)

Last night I (sort of) dreamed of Flandre. It was a weird dream. I was inside a sort of hyperrealist videogame which was also partly reality… I guess dream logic made this world both virtual and real at the same time… So I was in this game/reality and I recall having a weapon inventory similar to the guns available in Resident Evil 4. The place was some sort of gigantic convention as there were multiple people cosplaying all sorts of characters. At some point, I reached the entrance of a room that was absolutely humongous, like a sort of massive stadium with at least 500 000 people in it. I remember being impressed by how many people were in there and I took my semi-automatic snipper rifle (from Resident Evil 4) to zoom in in the crowd as to see if the game was rendering people’s face properly as I could not see them well from afar. Not sure when exactly, but at some point, I got inside that huge room and I met a girl who was cosplaying as Flandre. I recall her being extremely beautiful and attractive. For reasons that I can’t remember, I started talking about those weird stories and characters I used to create with a friend during my early teenage years. We talked for a little while and a few other people joined us, but then we got separated at some point. I got out of that huge room and walked in the rest of the building, which was also full of people. At some point I entered a restroom and there was full of arcade machines inside of it, including retro ones. Then, I don’t know why I suddenly did this, but I yelled to all the guys in the restroom: "Hey, let’s all go shoot everyone in that huge crowded room!!", and all the guys in the restroom answered a loud manly "YEEEAAAAH!!!" and we went to shoot people in the huge room, but sadly I woke up before I could reach it. In the end, I wish I could have spent more time with the Flandre cosplayer and ultimately go with her to shoot everyone in the huge room.

No. Not yet. I guess I am not worthy enough or there is something wrong with me. Maybe I'm not committed/fanatical enough.

sometimes i have sleep-paralysis. some times those who have sleep-paralysis sometimes say they see "the hat man" https://monster.fandom.com/wiki/Hat_Man i did not see "the hat man" i saw my waifu i now believe that "the hat man" IS my waifu i now believe that everyone who sees "the hat man" is really seeing my waifu. who is waiting for them

This is probably the kind of inside humor you need to be in the Discord to understand

Happy 10th Anniversary of jerking off to anime girls who are better than real life girls. Also, Always Awoo!

Here's hoping to another 10 years! Happy anniversary.

Happy 10th birthday, /mai/! What a milestone! and what a wonderful group of friends. You have all helped my love for Mink grow even stronger and I can only hope I've returned the favor for the ones you love :) And shoutout to 16crystals and Vit for keeping this ship afloat and thriving for as well as you have for as long as you have. None of us would be here without your hard work at building and maintaining this welcoming, encouraging community. Now Let's party!!

Barely anything? Most of her material is fan interpretation and head canons.

Not a single crumb of new canon in... 30 years ;_; But I don't really mind since I'm a super possessive & jealous lover, and this keeps her obscure. I am pretty starved for Lore though, so I have to do a lot of headcanoning >broadens her universe and/or makes her plot advance even Dragon Half canon material barely accomplishes this, lol Still, I am blessed to love a true protagonist with an entire series centered around her. The canon material I did get is saturated with my wife by definition. I feel for the lovers of minor side characters with limited screentime

The Sandman audiobook part 3 came out this year and part 4 is coming out next year i really like Kat Dennings as my waifu https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3NTpGtmhfg i HATED the Netflix show

New one!

>>71921 kino

>>71923 Usual stuff of them being liars, two-faced, hypocrites, being manipulative and using you and playing with your emotions when you're not in the best mental state for their own enjoyment. I never met a good Flandre fan in my life.

My waifu cannot drive unfortunately

My waifu patrols the mountains, so she would probably need a rally car, when she can't run or something. So probably the Toyota GR Yaris Rally1. Bonus: The colours of the car match her colour set (the 2022 and 2023 liveries that is). Here's the car being tested by Sébastien Ogier https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbkXQijMcOw

in the 80's Japanese anime was some weird niche thing. in the West the one 2 that where popular was my neighbor totoro and speed racer in the 90's is when western anime exploded Toonami was running Saler Moon and Dragon Ball z that is what everyone wanted in the '90s go they made what the audience wanted Cardcaptor Sakura, Yu yu hakusho Evangelion, Pokemon all of them are Saler Moon and Dragon Ball z look-alikes all of them designed to sell toys and trading cards then something changed in the 2000's Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya after that, everyone wanted waifu's

>>71572 >>71582 >Why? Have you ever dealt with real life women? Real life women who are actually good people are insanely fucking rare and they are never single.

>>71927 <Real life women who are actually good people> every time you meet a woman ed she automatically thinks that you could possibly be a predator and they have to carry pepper spray and tasers to defend themselves against you no matter how good we are a woman could easily just divorce us take half our money and our kids if you're unhappy in a relationship that's your own damn problem but if a woman's unhappy in a relationship that's also your fucking problem basically you better be able to provide or you're a loser. source: me multiple times over and over

>Just wanted to know if anyone else could relate to this. Absolutely. When I first got my daki, it was a massive game changer for me and I was only able to see the positive at first. But then, at some point, I started to notice that I was treating my daki as if it was my waifu herself, and not just as an object acting as a link between me and her. Maybe it was me who was unconsciously trying to forget the painful reality that I could never concretely be with Flandre, but in the end, realizing what I was doing made me feel like I had partially lost contact with her on a spiritual level. So what I did was to do my best to keep in mind that I tended to treat my daki as Flandre herself (therefore forgetting the real Flandre who is a fictional character, an idea, a concept), and whenever I saw myself making that mistake, I promptly changed my focus from the daki and redirected it to Flandre. For what I remember, it didn’t take that long for me to correct that bad pattern. For me, as long as I kept in mind that the daki was just an intermediate link between me and Flandre, I was able to use the daki as a mean to better spiritually and emotionally connect to Flandre (i.e. better than if I did not have the daki). So I suggest you to try the same as I did at first. If you realize that it isn’t working, then maybe you could try putting your daki away for about 2 weeks or a month and see if it helps in the end (and if it does, then try to reintroduce your daki and see if you can maintain the gain). >Even in my dreams (which I seldom have of her to begin with) she appears as a daki, not as full anatomically complete animated being. Same for me. I have dreamed of my daki multiple times, but I very seldom dreamed of Flandre as a full person in front of me. I personally don’t see it as a problem as I consider that it’s probably easier for my mind to represent, in my dream, a physical object that I see every day then a 2D character which can’t concretely exist in my physical 3D reality. >I also have been a "flat-on-my-back" sleeper for most of my life and sideways sleeping just isn't really my thing. First of all, a daki is far from just being a thing to hold while sleeping. It’s a material representation of your waifu that can help you better feel her presence in all aspects of your day-to-day life. As for sleep, you can have your daki close to you by your side and hold it with one arm, or lay it on top of you. Even without holding it, just having it next to you at night should help you better feel your waifu’s presence. I hope all of this helps you. Let us know later if your situation improved or not!

before i was a waifuis i have a teddy bear that i sleep with, i hold my bear every time i watched a movie or played a vidia. i see dakimakuras the same way i see a stuffed animals i do not have a daki of my waifu but i will post a pic of my waifu as a daki

Based Averi enjoyer.

>>71870 never stop posting averi