My first partner to find out about my vore fetish did so from reading my browser history. She had a panic attack and I had to talk her through the fact that, "no, I don't want to murder and cook you cannibal style". Once she calmed down, she felt really bad, and insisted on trying to incorporate it into our next bedroom session. She was massively in to degradation, so I decided I'd threaten to eat her if she didn't satisfy me enough otherwise, and it really must have clicked with her from then. It would become a regular thing where she would beg not to be eaten while servicing me, and once I inevitably decided I was going to anyway, she would completely flip, begging to be eaten, saying how she was nothing but a meal for me and that she deserved to be swallowed. I'd thought I was a switch biasing sub before that relationship, but thanks to her I'm almost entirely Dom and Pred now.
A few years after we split, I met another lass in uni. She was very open at being deviant, much to the embarassment of her extremely vanilla boyfriend. She mentioned at one point that she'd sold pics in the past, and since I'd done some camboy work in the past we bonded over our work experiences. She'd mentioned doing giantess vore stuff before, swallowing or stamping gummies and the like, and how she used to tease a previous boyfriend when they went out for food, either by saying he'd make a better meal than what was served, or pointing out random women she thought looked tasty. While over at mine during one of these discussions, she pushed me on to my bed and complained that she'd been flirting with me constantly and I hadn't realised. I admitted that I'd hoped she was but dismissed the notion cuz of her boyfriend. Turns out they had an arrangement. Since he was basically asexual, and he knew how important it was for her to engage with her kinks, he'd given her permission to find that elsewhere, as long as he didn't know who so he wouldn't get jealous of them (Talking to him a few years later after their breakup, he confirmed this himself). For our first time, I mostly let her be dominant, stepping on me, demanding I service her feet and belly etc, but near the end she said she wanted to try the other side. To help psych myself up for domming, I usually do an inspection, get the lass to stand up and be stripped down, examining different parts of her body, complimenting the quality, maybe giving the occasional grab or bite, I have been sent near essay length messages from women trying to explain how much they enjoy this process and how it brings out their submissive side. It had a similar effect here, and while she would still make comments of how she'd dreamt about eating me or wanted to see me under her feet again, whenever we actually had a session she would be incredibly submissive. We took two breaks from this arrangement while I was in relationships, but even now we still communicate fairly regularly, and she's gone basically full prey. When she is still dominant, it's more about her pleasuring me while I'm tied down, taunting me by eating my exes or other friends of ours that we've both admitted attraction to, whereas we've had multiple long discussions of how I'd wear her down over the course of a night, before devouring her whole, and how she'd wiggle and squirm to make it as enjoyable as she can for me. She's been stuck on the far side of the planet cuz her student visa expired then Covid hit, but she's due to finally visit again in 3 weeks. If anything happens, I'll be sure to post a detailed follow-up here, if ye'd care for it